We all, deep down in our souls, know that Facebook has destroyed the concept of friendship. Facebook has cheapened the meaning of the word friend, and yet, unwittingly … somehow, elevated the concept of “BFF” (best friend foreveeeeer!!!!)
Just the other day, a long time friend came to me apologizing that she had just recently accepted a long forgotten sent Facebook friend request. She took five minutes explaining how and why she accepts friends in Facebook and said that my friends invitation was simply an oversight and begged for my forgiveness. My response: “Oh OK, so how you been this week?”
New Competition: Google+ Circles
Not even out of BETA, Google+ has caused some irritation to Facebook. You can’t help but seeing reviews on the concept of “Google+ Circles” and your ability to project your information to specific circle of people rather then having it pasted to your entire ‘friend list’ in Facebook. After all, we segment our lives differently then all or nothing.
Google+ calls them “People”, Facebook calls them “Friends” I can subscribe to people’s feeds in Google+, and yes even narrow that down by creating a sub-set call Circles. Now in Facebook I can subscribe to ‘someone’ without being a being a friend.
Facebook has introduced a new look to ‘Lists’. You could always create friend lists, but most people never used them because they were not the easiest to create or maintain. Now they are more predominant on the screen and they include showing the number of new updates since last time on. I will post more on this later.
Facebook’s Unfriendly Subscribe Option
Finally, I can follow a person without giving them the false hope that we have somehow become anything other then an non-friend acquaintance, if that. My casual hook-up with them is simply a matter of convenience to satisfy my natural curiosity of what they have to offer. Our relationship simply lasts as long as they provide me what I need, and I can drop them as quickly as I met them. No emotional strings attached! How nice of Facebook for finally allow such unfriendly relationships.
Subscription Button Info
Here are some things to remember about this new Facebook capability:
- a person must turn this feather on to allow someone to subscribe to them.
- you get to decide how much you want to see from your subscriptions, photo’s only, or how about ‘no more game messages!’ – that’s actually a good thing.
- If you can’t subscribe to someone, just remember “It’s not you, it’s them” and you don’t have to feel left out, no one can then subscribe to that person.
- Facebook Pages have gone through a lot of changes expect more changes to come that way as well.
- Q&A: Sorting Subscriptions in Facebook (gadgetwise.blogs.nytimes.com)
- Facebook Tests Friend Filters to Challenge Google+ Circles (hubspot.com)
- Facebook’s Smart list V/S Google+ Circles (dirtech.wordpress.com)
- Facebook Adds New ‘subscribe’ Button: Watch out Twitter (pcworld.com)
- Have You Activated Facebook Subscriptions Yet? (smallbusinessmavericks.com)